The wedding ceremony should include warm encouragement of the couple’s love and respect, their commitment as a married couple, and a happy future with their family. Learn how to give inspirational yet realistic advice.

 

Topic – Beautiful Partners Helping Each Other

Everyone, I am standing here with a couple that is more beautiful than the weather on this wonderful and beautiful day.
I sincerely congratulate you on getting married in such beautiful weather.
I am grateful to be able to officiate at the wedding of such a beautiful couple, but I am also burdened in my heart.
I have written their names in my officiating notes, and I have taken on the burden of praying for their new family.
The groom, ○○, is a faithful servant who registered with our church in 2015 and has served as a member of the praise team with exemplary behavior.
When the groom, ○○, told me that he had a girlfriend, I prayed a lot and waited for him to get married, and I jokingly asked him when he would get married when I saw him.
I had only heard about the bride, ○○, from ○○-kun, but today I saw her for the first time and I thought she was a good match for ○○-kun.
While ○○-kun was serving God faithfully in the church, he and Ms. ○○ fell in love and got married today, so I am very pleased and happy as a pastor.
People meet and part with countless people in their lives.
However, who you meet and how you meet them is very important.
This is because meeting someone has a huge impact not only on the meeting itself, but also on your life after the meeting.
All the valuable things in the world do not come for free.
Work hard to have a positive influence on one another.
In the Bible, Adam cried out when he found his missing rib.
“This is the bone of my bones and the flesh of my flesh.”
This is a confession that he has finally become a complete human being.
No matter how good a husband pretends to be, he cannot become a complete human being without his wife, who is his “helping partner. A wife should be someone who helps her husband and adds to his glory.
Of course, today’s two protagonists and their families, as well as the guests, have all come here for the purpose of marriage.
However, nowadays it seems that many people get married when they are of marriageable age without really knowing what marriage is.
Perhaps some of the people here today do not know the true meaning of marriage either.
We should all begin by knowing exactly what marriage is.
What does the Bible mean by “marriage”?
Man was created in the “image of God,” which means that he was made in the image of God.
However, the Bible clearly states that God created man and woman in His image.
Marriage is the purpose and practice of the distinction between the sexes and the pure essence of family life and happiness.
The biblical husband should act as a priest as the head of the family and be the spiritual pillar of the family.
The wife should do a good job of supporting her husband spiritually to make him a reliable man of God.
Then the two of them will be able to enjoy happiness forever.
Before marriage, the bride and groom filled each other’s shortcomings with the help of their parents, but now I hope that the bride and groom will live together by filling each other’s shortcomings.
It is said that the shorter the wedding ceremony, the better, but since I only preach on Sundays, it has become longer than I intended.
I would like to thank the parents of the bride and groom for raising them with love, and I would like to end my talk by praying that the Lord’s peace and blessings will always be with them in their home.

 

 

Theme – A Couple Becoming Each Other’s Light

We sincerely congratulate the groom, ○○○, and the bride, ○○○, on their marriage.
With the blessing of their parents, who have raised them to be upright and excellent people for over 20 years,
and the many guests who took time out of their busy schedules to congratulate them,
the bride and groom have now become husband and wife.
As a professor who taught her at ○○ University and
as someone who, more than anyone else, is celebrating this marriage,
I am very happy to be the officiant at this blessed occasion of two people becoming one.
Today, I would like to say to the bride and groom, “Be a light to each other.
The bride and groom are already a light. A light shines by itself.
They have lived their lives by shining on their own.
The groom fell in love with the bride because of that light, and the bride must have felt love for the groom.
But now that they have become a married couple, they should become a lantern that shines for each other instead of a lantern that shines for themselves. They should become each other’s light.
Sometimes there will be things you want to hide, and there will be things you want to hide to the end.
But the two of you should not hide anything from each other.
Rather, the groom should let the bride see him better, and the bride should let the groom see her better.
Let yourselves be seen and let each other shine.
After all, shouldn’t a couple accept each other’s strengths and weaknesses?
What could you not show each other?
Let your strengths shine even more and correct your weaknesses.
Becoming a couple means that the shortcomings of one person become the shortcomings of two people, and the strengths of one person become the strengths of both people.
There is nothing in front of the two of you.
If you can be open and honest and make changes so that you can always be proud of yourselves,
Your family will always shine brightly, and it will also shine brightly on the people around you and the whole world.
I hope that their bright smiles today will also brighten their future.
I will end my remarks here.
Thank you very much.

 

 

Theme – Being a couple who make concessions to each other

Today is such a beautiful day that it is said that May brides are the most beautiful. On such a beautiful day, two people are starting a new life together by getting married. First of all, I would like to congratulate the parents of both families on this auspicious day. On behalf of the families of the bride and groom, I would also like to thank the family and friends and all the guests who have come to celebrate this wedding.
The bride is the star of the wedding. She shows her beauty today. Groom, isn’t the bride beautiful today? Please cherish and love the bride as much as you do today for the rest of your life.
Bride, how do you like the groom today? Isn’t he handsome? The bride should also love, respect and admire the groom for the rest of her life.
As you go through life, there are times when this moment, which seems to be the happiest moment in the world, is considered a trivial thing that just passes by. That’s how much the world has corrupted and exhausted you. But the bride and groom must remember this one thing. In those moments when you are tired and exhausted, who is next to you? The bride is next to the groom, and the groom is next to the bride. These two must cherish, love and care for each other with the present mind for the rest of their lives.
The first thing you must do to achieve this is to “compromise. You come from different backgrounds. You may have different opinions, from the smallest to the largest. You have to accept that you are different, but you also have to know that you are not wrong. Once you know that you are different without being wrong, the next step is easy.
The next thing is to make concessions. It does not matter who made one or two concessions. All that matters is that the couple, who have been married for life, made concessions for each other rather than one of them making a concession, and that the situation was resolved even better as a result. If you make concessions like that, you will come to respect each other, and even after a long time, the relationship between the two will become even better in the name of love and respect.
As a senior in life, I hope you will remember this one word, “compromise,” more than any other word. Congratulations on your marriage. Thank you.

 

 

Theme – Be a Gentle Person Who Cares for Each Other

As we welcome May, the queen of the seasons, we have prepared this meaningful occasion to welcome the groom, ○○○, and the bride, ○○○, on this beautiful day with their friends, family, relatives, colleagues, and seniors and juniors. I am here today not as a wedding officiant, but as a senior colleague and mentor to spread the beautiful and subtle fragrance of love to you both as you embark on this journey together.
I would also like to express my sincere gratitude to all of you who have taken time out of your busy schedules to come here today to celebrate the union of the two of you.
I would like to say a few words to the two people who are at the beginning of their new lives. I sincerely congratulate the bride and groom on their marriage. I hope that they will be happy for the rest of their lives. And I sincerely hope that they will have a beautiful journey together, where they will be able to say to each other, even if they are reborn in the distant future, that they will be each other’s light in this harsh world, and that they will be together forever.
And be a gentle person. A gentle heart is a heart that cares and loves others. If I want to eat meat today, but my partner wants to eat noodles, I hope that you will be willing to eat noodles and live with the happy thoughtfulness of eating noodles rather than the fullness of meat, and that you will be a thoughtful and warm husband and wife who cherish and care for each other even for the smallest things rather than impressing others with big things.

 

 

Theme – Be a couple who express their feelings first

Hello, everyone! A groom who truly loves and adores you! The most beautiful and wise bride in the world!
The two of you chose a day with high skies and a pleasant breeze, a day when the whole world is filled with the scent of flowers and the freshness of new buds, and pledged eternal love as a married couple in the presence of your parents and relatives. I pray from the bottom of my heart that you will always be blessed with happiness as you live as a married couple, bringing together all the energy of the world. And I offer you my heartfelt congratulations.
A heartwarming groom and a clear-minded bride.
In the infinite space and time where the beginning and the end are unknown, the mysterious and enigmatic destiny has created this time for them, and they have become a married couple in this place because of their love. They have the right to make this precious union they have chosen even more beautiful, and they have the responsibility and obligation to make it even more precious. Therefore, the officiant asks.
First, express your love. Love that is not expressed is not love. The moment you express your love in words and deeds, you will both be immersed in a sea of happiness. When the morning light shines into your bedroom, face each other and sing your love aloud and say, “I love you. When you see something beautiful in your daily life, share your feelings of love by expressing your thoughts through a phone call or text message, saying, “That is so touching.
Please affirm your love for each other with gifts and greetings to your in-laws, grandparents, and parents on their birthdays and other important family events. The best way to express love for your elders is to give them money, as the Officers have learned in their lives. And please respect each other. You two met through fate and became one through love. Respecting each other means respecting yourself and believing in your love. Therefore, even if you have different thoughts, if you respect each other with a respectful heart, all difficulties and hardships will melt away before your love, which is like a mountain and a sea, and your love will grow even deeper.
Dear family, relatives and guests who have honored us with your presence! We are grateful that you have taken time out of your busy schedules to bless them, and we ask that you continue to love and support this couple as they embark on their new life together.
Thank you.

 

 

Subject – Patience and consideration are necessary to live well with mutual understanding

First of all, on behalf of my parents, I would like to express my sincere gratitude to all of you, the relatives and friends of both families, for taking time out of your busy schedules to attend and bless our blessed wedding.
I am a comrade, friend and senior of ○○○, the father of the groom-to-be. Even though there are many seniors who are more accomplished than me, I was hesitant at first to be asked to officiate at the wedding of a non-famous person like me. However, more than anyone else, I sincerely celebrate the marriage of the groom ○○○ and the bride ○○○, so I decided to officiate as a senior in life and stand here today.
In the Eastern tradition there is a unit of time called “gyeop” that represents the turning of the wheel of reincarnation. This gyep can refer to the time between one great world renewal and the next, or the time it takes for a drop of water to fall from the sky every thousand years and break through a rock the size of a house. It is said that the bride and groom getting married today will meet 8,000 times, or once in 8,000 lifetimes. It may sound a bit exaggerated, but it is a story that shows how precious it is to be married.
Therefore, the beginning of a new family is not only a momentous event in human life, but also a great beginning that is blessed by the whole universe, including all living things, the sky, the earth, the wind, and the sun.
How can two people who grew up in different environments have nothing but joy when they live together as a family? They need patience and consideration to understand each other and live well together. Especially when conflicts arise in a marriage, you should solve them through sincere dialogue, looking at the problem from the other person’s perspective so as not to hurt each other’s pride. Then you will discover greater happiness through love and trust in the process of solving problems.
If the two of you work together sincerely, there is no problem that cannot be solved. As long as people have autonomy and creativity, when they recognize something as a problem, there is always a solution to that problem. Problems that cannot be solved are not even recognized as problems. A couple should be looking in the same direction. They are not only united in the form or concept of the world, but when they become united in their human growth and work, and when their goals become one, they become an evolving family. To do this, they must be a couple who are interested in each other’s work, even in trivial matters, and who discuss not only work but also daily life.
I hope that you will cherish the values that you cannot compromise with anyone or anything, and that you will become a beautiful family full of love and joy. Happiness comes from doing what you want to do together. Happiness depends on what you choose to do together. I hope that as you go through life, you will build up affection and determination, and that you will have a home where laughter never stops. Finally, I would like to end my speech by wishing all the guests good health, success in whatever they choose to do, and happiness in their homes. Thank you very much.

 

 

Theme – I hope the bride and groom will cherish and respect each other

In April, when all things sing the joy of rebirth, we are together in this beautiful season at the sacred place where two lives become one. Just as springtime, when new life is born and reborn, is precious to people, marriage, a great event in human life, is a more precious celebration than any other joy.
But as we celebrate this joyous occasion, we must remember that the greater the joy, the greater the responsibility and obligation that comes with it.
As the saying goes, “The faster the iron is heated, the faster it cools,” if we are only intoxicated with joy, the disappointment hidden behind the joy will easily reveal itself.
Moreover, since the bridegroom, ○○○, has demonstrated outstanding qualities from an early age, as befits the son of a distinguished family, and is expected to become a leader of our society, I believe that the bridegroom’s future will be guided by his own wishes.
In this regard, I think the bride, Ms. ○○○, who will be his partner, is the same. In order for a great person to be born, there must be an equally great wife to support him. In this regard, the expectations of the bride, Mrs. ○○○, who comes from a prestigious family that is as good as the groom, Mr. ○○○, are also high.
So today I would like to give this couple some advice. From this moment on, you must never forget to be calm and composed. The calmness I am talking about here refers to a gentle and humble attitude. A person who does not lose his or her gentle heart will not lose the softness of his or her heart even if something unpleasant or upsetting happens. He or she can accept feelings of dissatisfaction and discomfort with a broad mind and understanding. Therefore, if you have a gentle and calm mind, your marital harmony will not be destroyed by any difficulties.
The second is a calm mind. You cannot build a good family with a mind that is easily excited by happy things, easily saddened by sad things, and quick to react to unpleasant things. The wisdom to deal with the daily life that you encounter in a somewhat boring way is the calmness of mind, and it is this kind of mind that keeps you mentally calm.
The last thing in a marriage is strong love. Love is the basis of a happy marriage. It is really difficult to create a love that springs up like a spring. The only thing that keeps a person’s emotions calm is love, the feeling of caring for each other.
I am confident that if you and your spouse work together to maintain the four attitudes I have mentioned, your family will be a happy family with nothing lacking.
Finally, I would like to add that you should cherish the joy and happiness you feel today, and give each other new satisfaction and gratitude every day.
Thank you.

 

 

Topic – Beautiful Attitudes of Caring for Each Other

On such a joyful and beautiful day as today, I would like to express my gratitude to all the guests who have come to this event.
I believe you are as excited and happy as I am.
Seeing this beautiful couple reminds me of the day I met my wife and had our wedding. I was very nervous and anxious as I made a lifelong commitment with the blessings of countless people, but I couldn’t hide my joy at the thought of having a strong partner by my side.
I would like to take this opportunity to give this beautiful couple some words of wisdom for their bright future.
As of today, this couple will be together for the rest of their lives.
In the early days of their marriage, the fact that they are together is a blessing for them, and the days to come will seem beautiful. But how wonderful it would be if these two newlyweds, who were born in different backgrounds, could live without quarreling for the rest of their lives.
Unfortunately, even the closest of families can have different opinions. It is also necessary to talk and listen to each other frequently in order to overcome disagreements.
But what do you do when you can’t agree and you can’t bring yourself to change your mind?
If I may give an example from my own experience, the word you should think of in such a situation is “consideration.
Consideration is a very important word and action in life.
Some couples are unable to consider each other and are unable to reduce or overcome their differences.
However, if you have a considerate heart, it means that you are already willing to listen to the other person’s opinion, and you will be more willing to make concessions.
Also, if you are considerate and make concessions to your wife, you will not lose, but develop a good relationship and feel more enriched and generous. If this habit is repeated, the family will also become harmonious.
I believe that this young couple can create a harmonious and beautiful family. The eyes of these two couples are full of trust in each other.
I hope that they will continue to live their lives with consideration for each other and dream of a bright and beautiful future together.
Once again, I sincerely congratulate this beautiful couple on their marriage, and let’s all give them a round of applause.

 

 

Theme – Marriage is a journey of mutual respect and meeting each other’s needs

Today is a historic day for the families of the bride and groom.
I sincerely congratulate the couple on their marriage. I would also like to extend my congratulations to the families of the bride and groom and their relatives and friends. I would also like to thank all the guests who took time out of their busy schedules to celebrate the couple’s marriage.
To be honest, I was constantly thinking about what to say to the bride and groom, who have been happily cultivating their love for the past month, when I was asked to officiate at their wedding. I think the words of congratulations from all of you gathered here are enough to express my congratulations, since your hearts are one. However, I would like to make a few requests that are essential for married life.
First, the bride and groom should be filial to their parents. But they should not be unhappy filial sons or unhappy filial daughters. A wife should be a filial husband who is loved and recognized by her father-in-law and mother-in-law.
Second, they should have true love for each other with all their hearts. Benjamin Barber, a sociologist, said, “I do not divide the world into the strong and the weak, the successful and the unsuccessful. I divide people into those who learn and those who don’t. Marriage is really a process in which a man from Mars and a woman from Venus meet on Earth and learn from each other. This has been my experience. Marriage means that your choice of spouse is over. It means that you are now living a full life of love.
I hope the third couple stays healthy and works hard together. Don’t break each other in life, but use them well as your favorite things. Even a cell phone has amazing advanced functions beyond just making and receiving phone calls. What about us human beings? God created and blessed man and woman, and cell phones are nothing compared to them. So in this service, I will emphasize to the bride and groom to cherish and love each other.
Finally, I’d like to tell you a joke that you should remember. I think it’s a joke that offers a great insight into married life. “You can’t get married without the ability to judge, you can’t get divorced without the ability to endure, and you can’t remarry without the ability to remember.” This humor tells us that a marriage that begins with a lack of judgment is a process in which a man and a woman with very different personalities learn from each other, and that a marriage can only be happily maintained if both partners have the patience to respect each other and to make up for each other’s shortcomings.
Finally, I wish the families of the bride and groom, their relatives and friends, and the guests a life full of happiness. I believe that if the hearts of those who are blessing these two people today continue to do so, their family life and marriage will be filled with happiness. I would like to end my speech with one more request. Thank you very much.
Topic: Being a couple that covers each other’s shortcomings and complements each other
I would like to express my sincere gratitude to all of you for taking time out of your busy schedules today to celebrate the wedding of the groom, ○○○, and the bride, ○○○.
As ○○○○’s teacher during his school days, I am extremely happy and deeply moved to see ○○○, who has grown into such a wonderful young man, marry such a kind and beautiful bride.
A wedding is the most blessed day in a person’s life, and it is said to be a great event in a person’s life. In the past and in the present, weddings have been considered the greatest of all celebrations, whether in the East or in the West.
In the West, people wore white clothes, a symbol of wealth and purity, on the day of their wedding to pray for a long life. In Korea, the wedding ceremony was elevated to a higher level by wearing the same ssamokdae (formal Korean court dress) that the king and queen had worn since the Goguryeo period.
In other words, the wedding day is the most blessed day, so the custom of wearing a samilgwan-dae, which is the same as a king’s dress, on that day was allowed to receive the greatest blessing like a king and queen.
No matter how good the flowers are, they are not as good as the fruit, and the marriage that completes love is the marriage in which the people who love each other become one.
I would like to take this opportunity to ask for a few things.
We human beings have been told that life is incomplete because knowledge is incomplete. However, this incomplete time, which is not complete by the standards of success, is the time to leap forward together with a hopeful future.
I hope that you will be the kind of love that joins forces to face challenges, waits for success with love, and embraces it.
Also, love is not a combination of the good things in each other, but a combination of the bad things in each other.
We should accept each other’s shortcomings and complement each other while opening up the horizon with love.
Sometimes you may have problems because of different opinions. But please remember that love is not only about the good feelings, but also about the bad feelings that are fermented and aged in the family jar to create a truly delicious taste. Please guide and work hard to make this happen.
There is a phrase in an old poem that says, “The moon shines on a thousand rivers. The moon is love. I wish for the bride and groom who are getting married today to shine on each other’s hearts just like the moon shines on a thousand rivers, and to shine love in the hearts of all the people who live together.
From now on, the groom, ○○○, and the bride, ○○○, should always remember the wishes of the guests gathered here, and without a moment’s rest, move forward with strength toward a hopeful tomorrow.
I conclude my speech by wishing the groom, ○○○, and the bride, ○○○, much happiness and blessings on their journey. Thank you.