Wedding toasts and officiant speeches are important moments that touch the hearts of the bride and groom and their guests. In this article, we’ll show you how to write toasts and officiant speeches with examples and ideas to help you deliver a touching and heartfelt message.

 

Theme – May you be a couple who respect and care for each other’s happiness

First of all, I, the officiant, would like to extend my heartfelt congratulations to Mr. ○○○ and Ms. ○○○ on their wedding ceremony, which is taking place today on such a beautiful day.
The weather is clear and the sky is high, and the day looks unusually beautiful as these two young people are making the social commitment of marriage to form a family and become a prominent member of society.
I would like to thank the bride and groom’s relatives, relatives, and friends for taking the difficult step to be here today. And on behalf of the bride and groom, I would like to thank the Yang family for nurturing them to the point where they are able to tie the knot today.
“Without love, I am nothing; without love, all is for nothing; love is not envious; love is not arrogant; love is not selfish; love covers all things, believes all things, bears all things.”
I think these words teach us so much about the love of a married couple.
It is the way to live rightly, the way to live happily.
It is love that makes you happy. It’s the love of two people. That’s when you have a happy heart.
And for the happiness of the couple and the happiness of the society, please plant a tree wherever you can, whether it’s your parents’ house or your own house or your relatives’ house, and plant another tree when you have children, and plant a tree on every occasion. This tree will bring happiness to the two of you, and it will be your lucky tree.
Finally, a word to the adoptive parents. You have gone through a lot of trouble to raise this bride and groom, but when your children get married, let it go, don’t expect anything from them, just wish them a happy life and don’t interfere with them at all. The more you expect from your children, the more you interfere, the more you will be disappointed and your heart will be cracked.
And to the bride and groom. You should always be devoted to your parents. Your parents are getting old and sick. If you don’t take care of them, they will be lonely and lonely. Your relationship with your parents is a heavenly bond. May you always have a caring heart for your parents.
I would like to conclude my remarks by thanking all the guests for coming out here on this sunny spring day and wishing these two young people happiness.

 

 

Theme – A happy family is the result of hard work and dedication

It is indeed an honor to officiate at this momentous occasion where Mr. ○○○, the groom, and Ms. ○○○, the bride, promise to become one. As a senior in life, with nearly 30 years of experience in marriage, I dare to say a few words.
Relationships often happen spontaneously with the magic of “love,” but marriage, like a flower garden, requires a lot of hard work and care to keep it alive.
What exactly does it take?
Well, it starts with appreciating each other’s differences.
They’ve been living their own lives for over 30 years. Thirty years of life, in addition to the fundamental difference of being a man and a woman, means that there will be many differences in every little thing!
Neither is right or wrong, just different. I think the oneness of two people starts with recognizing their differences.
Don’t force the other person to conform to you, see each other for who you are, and you’ll find that you’ll become more alike. Take it easy and look at each other.
And, I’ll say it again, respect each other!
Husbands should always treat their wives with respect, and wives should always treat their husbands with respect. The closer and more comfortable you are with each other, the easier it is to treat each other casually. It’s been said that couples who use respectful language rarely fight, because the words themselves show respect. There’s a lot to be said for respecting your partner. It means affection and trust, but it also means equality. Children who grow up with parents who respect each other will naturally learn to respect others. Keep in mind that a good marriage is a big part of raising the right children.
The third thing I’d like to mention is family harmony. Marriage is not just about the two of you. You need to honor your parents, and you need to be able to get along with your siblings. In the beginning, you may have problems with cultural differences. As with any issue, if the bride and groom always keep in mind to put the other person first, they will be able to work through whatever comes their way.
By tying the knot, you two will begin a new life together. Throughout life, there will be many challenges, and what you need more than anything else is to be there for each other. Trust and rely on each other.
I sincerely wish you both the best in the many, many years ahead of you, as you help and support each other with warmth and wisdom.
I conclude my remarks by wishing you and your family every good fortune and all prosperity for many, many years to come. Once again, my heartfelt congratulations.

 

 

Topic – Say I love you at least three times a day

A couple who had been together for a long time finally tied the knot. Their journey to marriage had many stories, like a novel. Every couple that gets married has a novel story, and this couple had one too.
You’ve been through a lot together in your relationship, and you’ll be through a lot more together now that you’re married.
So, in the hopes that you’ll make wiser decisions in the years to come, I’d like to make a statement.
The bride and groom are standing here because they love each other, right?
At least three times a day, look each other in the eye and tell each other you love each other.
When you’re dating and in the early days of marriage, you tell each other you love each other.
But as life goes on, disagreements arise, conflicts arise, and if you don’t resolve them well and take them with you, you don’t naturally say I love you from the heart.
So how do you make sure you’re always saying I love you?
You need to talk a lot.
There is no conflict that can’t be resolved through conversation.
You’ve lived through so many different times in so many different circumstances that you need to always recognize that you’re not going to see eye to eye, and you need to talk about why you think the way you do and why you disagree.
If you don’t let conflicts go on for more than a day, you can always tell each other you love each other, and you can always say I love you from the heart, not out of obligation.
When I said earlier that you should say I love you at least three times a day, I didn’t mean out of obligation.
I hope the two of you getting married today will take this to heart and use it as a guide for the rest of your lives together.
To the two happiest people in the world standing here today, the groom ○○○ and the bride ○○○, may you love each other as much as you love each other now, and may you love each other until your gray hairs are roots.
This concludes the ceremony. Thank you.

 

 

Theme – Be a model couple who are filial and cherish your family

Today, with the blessings of your guests and the adults from both sides of the family, I’d like to extend my heartfelt congratulations to you on your new family. I’d also like to congratulate your parents, who have lovingly raised and taught you to be who you are today. And on behalf of your parents, I would like to thank you for taking time out of your busy schedules to come and celebrate your marriage.
True and abiding love is an absolute necessity for a married couple. This love requires sincere respect, understanding, and sometimes yielding to each other’s positions.
There are many “married celibate” couples around us, and while the term “married celibate” sounds ridiculous, it’s actually used by a religious order. It’s when a couple is living together in the same house without being in a spiritual union of love. If you don’t have spiritual unity, you’re technically married, but you’re not truly and happily married. We hope that you and your spouse can achieve spiritual unity and build a happy, model family.
However, you shouldn’t live your life in pursuit of your own happiness. You should be filial to both of your parents, who have carefully raised and taught you to be who you are today. You should honor them from the bottom of your heart, not just formally, and make sure they have a comfortable and enjoyable life. Filial piety is called “yangxin” filial piety if you only give them money and material things, and “yangji” filial piety if you honor them with your heart and make them feel comfortable and happy. While material filial piety, or “yangshin” filial piety, such as giving gifts and pocket money to your parents on their birthdays and holidays, is important, you should also practice “yangji” filial piety, which is loving and honoring your parents, your closest neighbors, from the bottom of your heart. I believe that your love for your parents will grow even stronger as you continue to honor them and receive their warm love.
And if you honor your parents and treat your siblings and other relatives with this kind of respect, you will be able to get along with your siblings, get along with other relatives, be welcomed by your colleagues at work, and have a smooth social life.
As you embark on this new chapter in your lives, I wish you both a happy and exemplary family with these points in mind.

 

 

Theme – To live happily ever after, there must be true and abiding love

Today, with the blessings of your parents and guests, you have exchanged your wedding vows and the officiant has pronounced your marriage, and you are now a man and wife.
Congratulations to you both on your marriage, and congratulations to your adoptive parents for all the hard work they’ve put into raising you and teaching you to be the people you are today. And on behalf of the parents, I’d like to thank you for taking time out of your busy schedules to come and celebrate their marriage.
Both the bride and groom were born into a good family and received a good upbringing, so I’m sure they will have a happy and exemplary marriage, but as the officiant of the day and as someone who has lived a few more decades in this world, I would like to say a few words of advice.
We all want to live happily and comfortably. Nobody wants to be unhappy, but this happiness is not something that is handed to you, it’s not something that your parents can make for you, it’s not something that you can buy, it’s not something that you can pay for, it’s something that you both have to work together to create.
For the two of you to live happily ever after in your new family, you must first and foremost have true, unwavering love. Just as air is essential for us to breathe and live, true and unwavering love is absolutely essential for married couples. To achieve this, I think there are a few things to keep in mind.
First, it comes down to how you perceive your partner. You shouldn’t see the other person as an object to be used or a burden to be taken care of, but as a partner to help each other through life. A man has the strengths and weaknesses of being a man, and a woman has the strengths and weaknesses of being a woman. You should combine your strengths and weaknesses, help and complement each other’s weaknesses, and live together as a supportive partner.
Secondly, you should accept each other as you are, not only now but also in the future. You are married now because you have accepted each other as you are. You have accepted each other’s physical condition, humanity, family environment, property status, social status, future prospects, etc. as you are. However, these conditions may change slightly as the years go by and you grow older and older. For a couple to have a true and lasting love, they must accept each other as they are throughout their lives, even if some things change.
Third, you need to live with mutual understanding and forgiveness. No one is perfect; we all have flaws and sometimes make mistakes. There will be times in life when we stumble and flaws will show up, and that’s when we need an attitude of empathy. If you can put yourself in the other person’s shoes, you’ll be able to let go of your own prejudices and understand the other person.
I believe that if the two of you continue to do these three things in your life: recognize the other as a helpful double for each other, accept each other as they are, strive to live in unity of love in spirit, and understand and forgive each other in the spirit of reverse thinking, you will be able to maintain your true and unchanging love.
I wish you both a happy and exemplary family with these points in mind as you embark on your new life path.
Thank you.

 

 

Topic – The happy couple’s first steps

I would like to extend my heartfelt congratulations to Mr. ○○○ and Mrs. ○○, who are tying the knot today.
I would also like to extend my sincere congratulations to their families.
I’m officiating at the request of Mr. ○○, the groom, as a gift from his university, but I feel awkward in this position.
However, I am honored to stand here because this is the wedding of a student whom I love and cherish more than anyone else.
The tall, handsome groom and the wise, feminine bride are a match made in heaven.
I believe they will build a family that is as wonderful as they look.
However, as a senior in life who has been married for more than ○○ years, there are a few things I would like to tell you.
I’ve been officiating a lot lately, and I get asked a lot of questions about how to make a happy marriage.
Marriage is the beginning of a new life.
So it’s natural to have fears and expectations about the future.
We get excited about marriage because it’s a new stage of life where we have the opportunity to realize our shared dreams.
But why is it that the same person who was so mysterious and made our hearts flutter just thinking about him or her when we were dating, loses that mystique and becomes just another Mr. or Mrs. after marriage?
Marriage has four seasons: spring, summer, fall, and winter, which come and go at whim.
It is said that how you spend these four seasons of your life determines your relationship.
In order to have a happy marriage, we must first recognize that marriage cannot be happy all the time.
Just as spring brings summer, fall brings winter, and winter brings spring, your marriage will go through the seasons in its own order.
Expectations of the impossible, mismatched desires, are said to be the source of tension and arguments in marriages.
The fact that marriage is a union between two different races – a woman and a man, a wife and a husband – also makes it inherently prone to conflict.
The answer to a happy marriage can be found in caring and communication.
Have you ever had a conversation where you shared your imagination and connected with each other?
That’s because it’s the best way to communicate love.
Couples who don’t know how to communicate are unhappy.
How can you be happy if you can’t feel loved by your partner?
You should look for each other’s strengths, actively express them, and strive to be happy.
I wish you a great family life, knowing that marriage gives you the freedom to be an independent family, but it also comes with responsibilities.
I wish you both a strong start to a happy married life, hand in hand.
I would like to conclude my officiating by wishing the bride and groom all the happiness in the world.
Thank you.

 

 

Topic – It takes respect, understanding, and love to make a family

It is indeed a joyous day.
First, I would like to extend my warmest congratulations to both parents on this auspicious occasion, and on behalf of the couple, I would like to thank all the guests for taking time out of their busy schedules to attend.
I am especially honored to be able to officiate on such a beautiful day with the bride and groom, their families, friends, and many guests.
The bridegroom, Mr. ○○○, is a promising young man who, under the guidance of his wonderful parents, graduated from the ○○ Faculty of the ○○ University and is currently working in the field of economics.
The bride, Ms. ○○○, is an intelligent and beautiful bride who grew up in a good family with exemplary teaching from her business parents.
Bride and groom, these two are young people from good families who have accumulated knowledge and cultivation, so as the officiant, I have nothing more to say, but as a senior in life and a teacher who cares about his students, I would like to say a few words.
Up until now, the bride and groom have grown up in different environments, but from now on, they must create new values by marrying and forming one family.
Life is about two different personalities meeting and choosing to love and choose each other to form one family, and they must have respect, understanding, and care for each other.
Just as the deeper the water, the more fish will gather around, and the denser the forest, the more birds will fly around, a person who is full of love will always have a lot of good people around them.
The same is true for a happy family.
For a marriage to work well, the groom should live with a sense of gratitude to the bride, and the bride to the groom, for the support they receive from each other.
Always think of others rather than yourself, and never forget the grace of your adoptive parents and everyone around you who gave birth to you and raised you to be who you are today, and repay them for their grace.
I hope that the two of you, who have come together to form a family, will become warm-hearted people with great character and skills who care about others, both at home and at work. I would like to congratulate you and wish you all the happiness in the world.
I would also like to ask all the guests to watch over them as they embark on their blessed journey and give them your warmest wishes.
From the bottom of my heart, may blessings and peace be with this family.
Thank you very much.

 

 

Theme – Happiness is all about love

I think this marriage that you all took time out of your busy schedule to attend today has a deeper meaning because it has a unique story. When I heard from the groom, Mr. ○○○, the other day about how they got to where they are today, the process of falling in love, and the troubles they faced before they decided to get married, it made me think a lot.
It made me keep thinking about what is life, what do we live for, what is happiness, what is love? It made me learn and confirm that happiness comes from love after all, and that being in a loving state of mind is called happiness. I also thought, isn’t it possible that all the twisted and tangled problems of human beings can be solved by this love, and isn’t this the same thing that religions are talking about when they call for the salvation of mankind?
Today, the officiant is planning to end his sermon with a love homily, but the love homily we are talking about today is not about the kind of love we often see in the world today, but about pure love, such as the love shared by the bride and groom standing here today.
The love of two people who not only ignore age, wealth, and social status, which are often used as conditions for marriage these days, but who unite against all odds and serious opposition, is pure love and true love. Nothing in this world, no matter how noble and great it is said to be, touches our hearts as pure love touches our hearts; and even if there is something that everyone in this world calls noble or great, as long as we know that it is not pure, we cannot be moved by it or have respect for it, but rather despise it.
You are here today to witness a bride and groom, two people united in a ceremony of pure love that truly moves us. It is said that when we witness good things, beautiful things, we are united in joy, and we are inspired to do even better things, even more beautiful things. I hope that from today, you can do better and more beautiful things, not only for this bride and groom, but also for our neighbors, our people, and our country, and I hope that you will not only be a witness for one day, but also become an everlasting fan who will continue to encourage and support the pure love of this couple.
As the officiant today, I don’t have words of exhortation for the bride and groom.
I just want to celebrate with you in this room to the fullest. I hope that the pure love you have today will never fade and will be nurtured for a lifetime, creating a happy family that will last not only in this world but also in the eternal heaven.

 

 

Theme – A lifetime as special as today

Congratulations to Mr. ○○○ and Ms. ○○○ on their marriage.
We would also like to thank and congratulate their parents for raising them so well.
To bless the two of you as you become one family today.
To all of the guests who have joined us today to celebrate their union.
On behalf of the bride and groom, thank you.
You are now man and wife in the presence of many people.
From now on, every day of the month of ○ will be the most special day of the year for the two of you.
But what I would like to say to the bride and groom today is
Don’t just think of January as the most special day of the year.
but to make every day from now on, special for the two of you.
and be grateful to each other for making them all special.
for making them all special.
Many couples neglect each other as the years go by.
and only reaffirm their love for each other on their anniversary
anniversaries.
Many couples only express their love to each other a few days out of the year.
They are only good to each other on those days on the calendar.
and measure their love by the amount of love they show…
That’s probably not the kind of marriage you’re envisioning.
Show each other love all the time.
understanding each other because you love each other,
and if there are times when you disagree.
you’ve had very different lives up until now.
and use it as an opportunity to grow closer
and learn from each other.
If you live that way
the rest of your lives will be just as special
will be just as special as today.
That’s the kind of happy marriage you’ve always dreamed of.
You were lovers yesterday.
are now husband and wife.
Now their love will be a little different than it was yesterday.
Yesterday, you expected extraordinary love from each other.
Today, you find extraordinary love in ordinary love.
Instead of expecting visible love,
Rather than hoping to prove that love…
That your loved one is there for you,
That your loved one is healthy,
that the person you love loves you back…
Take all of these things for granted and live in gratitude.
If you do, you will be the happiest couple in the world.
This extraordinary joy, happiness, and love that you both felt today
may it become an ordinary joy, happiness, and love for you both.
I hope that you will take what we’ve talked about to heart and put it into practice
so that you may be a happy couple forever.
This concludes my remarks.
Thank you very much, everyone, for joining us.

 

 

Theme – To complete the dish of happiness

In the middle of May, when fresh green fills the mountains and fields, and early summer flowers are in full bloom,
Please give a hearty round of applause to the young man and woman who stand here to receive your blessings and well wishes before the sacred union of marriage.
There is a saying that ‘Marriage is not about eating a pre-made dish of happiness, but about making a dish of happiness with the two of you from now on’. This quote shows that marriage is based on a lot of hard work and communication.
A happy marriage is never a given; it takes a lot of work and a solid love.
Today you have one of the ingredients for happiness by meeting the partner of a lifetime.
Now it’s up to you to turn it into a great dish.
The love that brought you to this day must have been dazzling and beautiful.
But the marriage you’re about to embark on isn’t all romance and fantasy; it’s a life of its own, and unlike before, every little detail is a source of conflict. It’s not a life lived alone, it’s a two-person journey, and you’re going to encounter misunderstandings from time to time.
I urge the bride and groom to treat each other with generosity and acceptance.
There’s no end to the nitpicking and finding fault with each other; there will be countless ways in which you’re not alike because you’re meeting someone who isn’t your family and creating a family. It’s the cute rant of a young person in love to want to have the same hobbies, the same tastes, every single one of them, but it’s even more ridiculous to get angry every time you find a difference and say, why aren’t you like me, why aren’t you like me. Marriage is like closing one eye, so embrace each other with a generous heart.
There are countless days of life ahead of the two of you.
Your passionate love binds you together, but in order to truly become one, you’ll need to spend that time wearing yourself down to fit each other, rather than polishing each other up. I want you to be the kind of couple who can look at themselves first and reflect, rather than blame your partner.
If you can do that, you will be the best partners you can be for the rest of your lives, and you will be able to celebrate the light of your lives. I wish you two, who will travel all the roads of life together, who will share all the joys and sorrows of life, to remember this day for the rest of your lives, and to remember the words tolerance and acceptance.
Finally, we would like to thank you, our guests, for joining us on this day as a couple makes the commitment of a lifetime. I would like to conclude my remarks by wishing the bride and groom all the best for the future.