The wedding ceremony is a blessing for the bride and groom and a message of wisdom for life. A heartfelt ceremony is touching and memorable. How can you deliver warm and meaningful words?

 

Topic – Be willing to make concessions

We sincerely congratulate the groom, ○○○, and the bride, ○○○, on their marriage.
On this once-in-a-lifetime day, we would like to express our gratitude to all the guests who have come to celebrate the lovely bride and groom, their parents, and their relatives for bringing them up so well.
Now, in the presence of all these people, they have become a married couple.
As a senior who has been married for ○○ years this year, I would like to give you some advice.
A few months ago, a bride and groom came to me and asked me to officiate at their wedding. At that time, I told them a lot as a senior in life and marriage, but I would like to take this opportunity to tell them again.
Marriage is not only the union of two people, but also the union of two families.
After all, they are individuals and families who grew up in different environments, so there will be many times when they will have conflicts in their lives.
When a problem arises, people think of clear and firm standards within themselves.
How they deal with the situation at that time will play a role in building a good family in the future.
Young people today say things like, “I have to give in because I’m a man.
But compromise is something that both parties have to do for each other.
It is not always a matter of who has to compromise, but of being willing to compromise for each other at any time.
I think this attitude will help you a lot in the crisis and conflict you are facing.
You have to think from the other person’s perspective and have the ability to look into their heart.
If people who are going to be together for a long time are always willing to try to understand each other and make concessions for each other, they will appreciate each other and be a happy couple forever.
I wish them eternal happiness in the future, and I will end my speech here.

 

 

Topic – The Most Beautiful Choice in the World

First of all, I would like to thank you all for coming here today.
I am also very happy to officiate this wedding on such a warm spring day.
Everyone, let us give a round of applause to this beautiful couple who have chosen each other out of all the people in the world.
How can we not bless them for choosing each other and tying the knot here today?
Today I would like to give this young couple some advice about choosing a life partner.
There are many different kinds of people in the world.
They have different backgrounds, looks, and personalities.
How do we choose each other from all these people and decide to spend our lives together?
It is because of the mysterious phenomenon of love.
Everyone knows that when you fall in love, you see a different side of your partner that no one else can see.
Some say it’s because you’re in love, but I think it’s a lucky phenomenon that some young people experience at least once.
As a married man myself, I hope that this couple will have a happy future, but even if they don’t, I will teach them how to overcome it wisely.
Even if the couple’s life is filled with small disagreements that lead to misunderstandings, they hope that people will remember their beautiful first meeting.
There are several important moments in our lives when we must make decisions. Choosing a spouse is one of them.
I hope that the faint feelings you had for each other when you first met and the reason you decided to get married will remain in your hearts forever.
I hope that whenever you fight or argue, you will remember these feelings and remember your affection for each other.
You have chosen each other as your spouse for life. They will never have the freedom to choose anyone else. Therefore, they should love each other and do their best to forge a happy path for themselves.
I hope that this couple will have a bright future, and I hope that they will have a wise marriage so that they will not regret their choice.
Thank you very much.

 

 

Topic – Please Always Think of Others Before Yourself

First of all, I would like to express my sincere gratitude to the groom’s father for allowing me to officiate at the wedding even though I am not very good at it. I would also like to take this opportunity to congratulate you both on your marriage, which you are celebrating today in the presence of your parents and with the blessings of your guests. Today, the sky is clear and the weather is perfect for autumn, and I would like to first express my gratitude to all of you who have come to grace the wedding of the bride, Ms. ○○○, and the groom, Mr. ○○○, on behalf of their parents and the officiating priest.
And today, I would like to express my gratitude to the parents of the bride and groom for raising and teaching the couple, and I wish the newlyweds a happy life together. I am honored to perform this wedding ceremony on this auspicious day in the presence of the parents of the bride and groom, relatives, and many guests.
Looking at the clear weather today, it is clear that even heaven is blessing this couple’s wedding. How can I, who have so many shortcomings, say anything else? I will be officiating as a senior member of society who has lived a few years longer than the bride and groom.
Even if the officiant stood up here and gave a long speech about honoring parents, being friendly with siblings, and loving each other, the bride and groom standing before the officiant would not hear these words. Since these are words that must be followed, I will omit these common expressions and replace them with a few simple words of advice for the bride and groom.
First, I hope that you will recognize the virtues of being husband and wife, respecting each other, and living in harmony. The most basic thing for a happy marriage is harmony between the two of you.
The bride and groom have grown up in different environments, but from now on they must break away from that environment and create new values in a new environment. Because people come from different backgrounds, their personalities and lifestyles are bound to be different. It is not easy for two people who grew up in different environments to get married and live together as a family. Therefore, in order to achieve harmony between the couple, they must have an understanding and a caring heart for each other. For this reason, it is desirable for the groom to live with the feeling that he is always receiving help from the bride, and for the bride to live with the feeling that she is always receiving help from the groom.
Just as fish gather in deep waters and birds flock to lush forests, there are always good people around a loving person. This is true of couples and families. Always think of others before you think of yourself.
And I would like to say a few words to our guests. You are here today to celebrate your future together.
Please don’t stop at the two of you starting a new life today. Please continue to pay attention to the two of them who are still missing, and guide them with warm advice and encouragement so that they can build a happy family.
Once again, I sincerely congratulate them on their wedding.

 

 

Theme – Always cherish and love each other with the heart of an artist

Hello everyone.
I have a lot to say in my speech today, but the guests will probably get bored, and even if I say a lot, the bride and groom probably won’t remember much of it, so I tried to finish as quickly as possible.
First of all, I would like to thank the bride and groom on behalf of their family and relatives.
and all the guests who took time out of their busy schedules to celebrate this joyous occasion.
As a senior who got married before the bride and groom and has lived a little longer, I would like to offer you my heartfelt congratulations on starting a family and give you some advice.
Today’s joy of marriage is not only for you two, but also for all your relatives, the guests here, and all those who are not here but are celebrating from afar.
As the officiant, I would like to take this opportunity to ask all the families to use today’s wedding as an opportunity to resolve any misunderstandings that have been uncomfortable and to wish only good things for the future.
Marriage is not always sweet and smooth.
The German poet Heine said that every compass is a rough sea that has never found a way. I hope that you will always live your lives as captains and navigators, sailing towards a hopeful future based on the past, and that you will work together to build a happy and harmonious family. I hope that you will always solve problems through dialogue, refrain from saying things that hurt each other’s feelings, think and care about each other’s perspectives, and always encourage each other with a smile.
Especially in difficult times, I hope you will have the heart to strengthen the friendship between your parents and siblings, not just between you and your family.
And as the Bible says, I believe that you can never succeed in life without remembering the three spirits.
The three minds are the beginning mind, the middle mind, and the end mind.
Everyone starts out humble and sincere, wanting to learn, but most of them forget their original intentions over time. However, I hope that the bride and groom here will not forget their original intentions and will love each other to the end.
I will end my speech by wishing you both good health and a happy family.
I hope you are both happy.
Thank you very much.

 

 

Topic – For Fruitful Love

Through my work as a teacher, I have been asked to officiate at several weddings.
Each time, my heart swells with the desire for these young people’s new beginnings. But I can say with certainty that no wedding I have ever attended has been more beautiful than today’s. Thank you to all the guests who attended today’s most special and beautiful wedding.
The two people standing in front of me no longer have the faces of young men.
The faces of the two of them I remember from my college days were more youthful and fresh, but 10 years have turned them into middle-aged figures.
However, they have a love that is like a slow but long-burning fire, not the passionate love of a young man and woman.
There is no passion in their eyes, but there is affection and respect.
The proof of this is the trust that has endured through the difficult and poor years, and the loving children who stand by their side will be the witnesses.
I have always wished for young couples.
I have always said that marriage is the most blessed thing that can be achieved in life, and that a happy marriage is like the most beautiful fruit.
At the same time, I have also talked about the effort that must be made to reap the fruit.
Young couples who are just getting married usually know only the budding love, and they often neglect the time and effort it takes for the tree to grow and bear fruit.
The first is to have strong faith in each other.
The second is the determination not to break the promise made today no matter what hardships they face, and the third is that they must solve all problems through love and dialog.
The two standing before me have practiced these things themselves.
Even through the difficult years, poverty and the vicissitudes of life, the courage of the head of the household was not broken and the trust of his wife was not broken.
After 10 years of marriage, this couple stood before me dressed in their best clothes, and their love
has already borne the most solid and strong fruit.
Today, this ceremony will be a chance for them to be recognized for that love once again in front of their guests.
As I look at this couple holding each other’s hands, I dare to make a wish,
I dare to make a wish.
Even if the waves get even stronger from now on, as they have been so far,
They will never let go of each other’s hands and will live their lives looking into each other’s eyes.
Finally, I would like to end my speech by wishing the couple who came before us with their strong love all the best for their future together.

 

 

Topic – I applaud the wisdom of the couple who have maintained their marriage for so long

Good afternoon.
I would like to welcome all the guests who have come here today, including the couple’s families,
Today I would like to extend my heartfelt congratulations to a beautiful couple celebrating their 25th wedding anniversary.
As I stand here, the couple looks as beautiful as the bride and groom when they first got married.
Most of all, I would like to congratulate the couple for maintaining a harmonious family for such a long time.
What is more important than getting married is building a good family after marriage.
Looking at the faces of this beautiful couple, they still seem to be full of faith and love for each other.
The faces of their children, who are also present at this event, also look happy, indicating that they have worked hard to build a harmonious family while trusting and cherishing each other.
When people get married and start living together, they are full of love for each other, but as time goes by, they start arguing and have differences of opinion.
Only by overcoming such difficulties and adversities can you have a true marriage. I think that this couple has overcome several such adversities, and over time they have come to have a deeper understanding and trust for each other.
It has been said that a family must be peaceful in order to have a stable life outside.
A stable family is the result of the efforts of the husband, the head of the household, and the efforts of the wife, who provides and maintains a comfortable home for her husband.
Therefore, this couple, who have made endless efforts to protect their family and are celebrating their 25th wedding anniversary with unwavering love for each other, cannot be anything but beautiful.
I hope that you will continue to nurture your unwavering love for each other for another 25 years. I also believe that we will be able to see you again in your beautiful appearance as you have protected your family so far.
I wish the couple and their children a future full of happiness, and I will end my speech. Thank you very much.

 

 

Topic – I ask you to live a new and fresh life like today

First of all, I would like to extend my sincere congratulations to the bride and groom, ○○○ and ○○○, on their wedding today. I would also like to congratulate both families for their efforts in bringing them together to form a family. I would also like to thank the guests who came to congratulate the couple on behalf of the bride and groom.
The bride and groom have now solemnly pledged to live as husband and wife for the rest of their lives, understanding each other with sincerity and with your blessings. On this happy occasion, I would like to reflect on two old Korean folk tales.
There is a fish living in the water. It is a fish with only one eye. This fish cannot swim freely until it meets another fish with only one eye. Today, the bride and groom have found the other eye that they have been living with. Therefore, life begins in a new paradise where the two of them live together, not as I who has been living alone.
I’m not going to talk about many things today, but I’m going to recommend a few things to the bride and groom. I know that the groom has already played many difficult roles at home under his wonderful parents. Even though the family is small, you will now realize how difficult it is to run a business in a certain sense. The family is the only unit that can govern the family, achieve harmony, and gain various benefits.
Now you will know that this family is more difficult than any other group, and it is bigger and more precious than any other group. The same is true for brides. Marriage is now not one, but two. No, it is a process of two becoming one. So the stage of a family with a husband is no longer something that can be achieved with one’s own talents alone. I sincerely hope that you will endure and persevere and play the true life of a family. Now the bride and groom will be plunged into the harsh reality as soon as today’s grand and glamorous wedding is over.
Marriage is like sweeping the dust with a broom. No matter how hard we sweep it away, the dust will always come back. No matter how hard we try, the dust will keep piling up. Now, after these glamorous weddings, the battle with dust begins. Dust called boredom or inertia, and the dust of repeated daily routines called habits that occur in our lives can threaten this clear, clean, and brilliant place today.
As the officiant, I would like to ask you all to remember the beauty and blessings of today and live in a new and fresh way forever.
I would like to ask you all to once again show your affection and interest so that you two can become a happy couple and live a life that is an example for others to follow and envy. Thank you very much.

 

 

Topic – I Hope You Always Have a Grateful Heart and Live a Positive Life

Hello everyone. Today is a very special day for ○○○ and ○○○ who are getting married with your blessings. I would like to express my sincere gratitude to all of you who have taken time out of your busy schedules to bless this couple, and I am honored to be the officiant of their wedding. As the officiant of this sacred ceremony, I would like to offer some words of advice to the bride and groom.
There is an old saying that says, “Everything goes well in a happy family. This means that everything goes well when there is harmony in the family. To achieve this, we must first have a mind that respects each other. Instead of insisting on our own habits and personalities, we should have a mind that respects others, understands them, and makes concessions to create a harmonious family. Like the saying, “Man and woman are one,” I believe that if two people join their hearts together, they will not be afraid of the harsh winds and waves of this world.
I believe that you two are a very good couple, and I believe that your married life will be very happy. However, even if you encounter some difficulties, if you have faith and love for each other and have a sincere attitude and have a sincere conversation, it can lead to your love deepening, so please keep that in mind and always try to have a sincere and honest conversation.
I hope that both of you will live honest and diligent lives. Now, when you both start a new family after marriage, the most important thing you need is a sincere and hardworking attitude. If you save your time well and do your best, you will become confident in everything, and I believe you will have good results. And I hope that both of you will always live a life that is honest and true.
I also hope that you will always have a grateful heart and live a positive life. You must never forget the great love and grace of your parents, who supported you with love and devotion and gave you great teachings so that you could have this honor today.
I hope you will always have a grateful heart and be positive in everything you do. Then you will become two people who are filial to your parents and other relatives, who have great love and friendship with your siblings, and who are loved and trusted by everyone.
Today you two are meeting as a couple of social intellectuals whom everyone envies and blesses. Everyone here wishes you both prosperity and blessings. I feel a sense of pride and accomplishment, and I hope that the new family that will be born will be a precious family that can contribute to the glory and development not only of the two people and two families, but also of this country, this nation, and humanity. I hope that the couple will become a couple that finds greater joy in serving and giving to their neighbors, and I will use this as a substitute for my sermon.
Thank you.

 

 

Topic – Courage to Overcome Adversity and Hardship

I would like to express my sincere gratitude to all of you, the guests, who have come despite the cold weather today to celebrate the marriage of the groom, ○○○, and the bride, ○○○.
I am very sorry to all the guests that I, who do not have much life experience, have been asked to stand up here.
I am only here because of my special relationship with the groom’s high school teacher, ○○○. Please be generous and understanding.
The groom, ○○○, studied hard and excelled in his studies despite the difficult environment he was in during high school. He was praised by many teachers for being an honest and exemplary student. He has now grown into a healthy and reliable young man who fulfills his role and duties as a member of society.
Meanwhile, the bride, Mrs. ○○○, has received a solid family education and cultivated virtue just like the groom, and has grown into a wonderful and humble first-class bride, so I think it is a great joy for both families and society that this young couple met and got married.
Today, instead of saying that I am the officiating minister, I would like to say a few words to the bride and groom from the perspective of their class teacher.
Married couples are partners who meet and share affection with each other to pursue happiness and live together as a common destiny. Therefore, marriage has many meanings in life. At weddings, we usually say a lot of nice things to the bride and groom.
“We should accumulate virtue, take good care of our parents, and be united in love as husband and wife. We should also live in society with patience and humility. These are all good words. And we should practice them. But what I want to emphasize here is filial piety and health.
When we have children, we bring them up with all our love and care. It also causes a lot of pain and spoils a lot of things. But if you think that your parents would have done the same thing when they raised you, you will realize their love for you and understand their heart and sincerity. Then you will naturally feel filial piety toward your parents, and this filial piety will affect your children, who will also become filial. That is the root of filial piety. When this happens, families and society will become harmonious, and morality will be restored.
Today, the concept of filial piety is gradually disappearing because times are changing rapidly, individualism is spreading, and the nuclear family is becoming more common. However, the relationship between parents and children is called the covenant of heaven, and it is a human duty that cannot be broken even if the end of the world comes. I hope that the feeling of doing what I should for my parents will remain unchanged no matter what anyone says.
Next, you must have courage. Courage is strength, and the source of strength is health. When a couple is healthy, the family is filled with peace and happiness, and they have the energy to live their lives and the wisdom to overcome hardships and adversities.
If you lose your health, your strength and courage will naturally weaken, and you will lose the will to live and become a loser in life, causing you to worry about your children as the head of the family and your wife, making your parents sad, and showing a submissive attitude toward your colleagues and neighbors. Therefore, I ask you to never give up and have the courage to overcome adversity and hardship.
Finally, I would like to thank you for listening to my views, which are still immature and lacking in life experience, and I end my speech by wishing the groom, ○○○, and the bride, ○○○, all the best for the future.

 

 

Topic – You should give rather than take

Hello everyone.
This day is as clear and beautiful as the happy faces of the bride and groom. I hope that all the guests who have come to celebrate with us have a happy day as well.
We are getting married because we love each other so much that we don’t want to be apart for even one day. We promise to love and be together for the rest of our lives. But when we actually live, it doesn’t seem to work out that way. We often say that we are like enemies to each other. Why is that?
I think it is. I think it’s because everyone is trying to get something from the other person. I think there are a lot of people who see marriage itself as a tool to get something from the other person. As a result, they start making demands and wanting something better.
True love is giving. If you think about what you can do for your partner before you want to do it, your relationship will always be peaceful and loving. It is not a one-way giving, but a mutual giving between the couple.
Of course, it will not be easy to do this in real life. But if you keep that in mind, I think you will have fewer arguments than if you forget it.
It all depends on how you think. Our reactions can be completely different depending on how we think about the same thing in the same situation. Treat everything positively and with love. A very small difference in perception can make a big difference in your life.
Do you know the happiness evangelist who is often used as a gag these days? That’s what he’s mostly talking about. Look on the bright side! Get into the habit of responding positively. There are so many difficult things that can happen in life. What you really need at times like this is a positive attitude.
I just said two things to the bride and groom. Try to give to each other with a positive mind! I ask you to always remember that. Then your home will be full of love.
I sincerely congratulate the bride and groom on their marriage, and I will end my speech here.