Wedding speeches are warm encouragement and advice to couples. We have collected moving wedding speeches that convey the values of love, trust, and respect. Meet the messages that will make your precious relationship even more beautiful.

 

Theme – Couples should have faith in any case

On behalf of the groom and bride, I would like to thank all the guests who have come to congratulate the beautiful young couple on their new beginning, even though you are busy.
I am also very honored to be able to be with you as the officiant on such a special day.
Since both of you were raised as dutiful sons and daughters under wonderful parents, I don’t have anything else to ask of you, but since I am standing here as the officiant, I would like to say a few words of advice.
You are performing the sacred ritual of marriage today. They got married because they thought that living together would be happier than living alone, but it’s not that easy.
So I would like to say a few words about what I have been thinking about in my own way to make you happy.
First, a couple must be harmonious. Marital harmony is achieved when one accepts the other as they are.
A wife should not try to fit herself into the mold of what her husband thinks is the “ideal wife.” Likewise, a husband should not try to fit himself into the mold of what his wife thinks is the “ideal husband.”
The other person is not me.
A couple should always encourage and trust each other so that they can keep their unique personalities alive. When they do, the other person will be happy and so will I.
In order to achieve harmony in the family, it is important to trust the other person as well as to see them as they are.
There are cancerous germs in love, too. That is distrust. There is also an anti-cancer drug for love. It is faith.
As a poet once sang.
In many cases, couples become suspicious of each other due to a lack of communication. Such suspicion makes them forget to trust and love each other. I have seen many times that a little doubt often leads to great trouble.
Therefore, a couple should have firm faith in each other in any case.
You both made a marriage vow here today.
It is not a conditional vow that I will only be good to the other person when they are good, but an unconditional vow that I will believe in and follow the other person with a heart of devotion no matter what the other person is going through.
Therefore, even if you hear any criticism or bad words about your partner from your parents, siblings, or anyone else, you must show strong faith in your partner, saying, “I trust my husband,” and “I trust my wife.”
I would like to emphasize once again that faith in your husband and wife must be absolute faith that comes before faith in Buddha or God.
I would like to conclude my speech by trusting that you will keep in mind the words I have asked you to, and that you will build a harmonious and blessed family, a prosperous family. Thank you.

 

 

Theme – A couple is forever. Never forget today

Hello, everyone. Today is the most beautiful day in the middle of May, the queen of the seasons. On such a beautiful day, two people are making a new start in their lives through the marriage ceremony.
First of all, I would like to congratulate the parents of both families on this auspicious day. I would also like to thank the family and friends of the bride and groom who attended the wedding to celebrate the marriage and brighten the occasion, on behalf of the bride and groom’s families.
The representatives of the member companies, including the presiding minister, had already predicted that these two would make a perfect match. And today, we are presenting a golden key of fortune, which we have prepared at our company, to confirm that our judgment was correct and to celebrate the birth of this beautiful couple.
The meaning of pure gold lucky key is that it is a wish for the couple to be together forever with the permanence of pure gold and to be the most precious and valuable to each other with the value of pure gold, and that the family will be blessed with wealth and family health with the luck of the key. It also contains the meaning that we will watch over and be with this family for their happiness for the rest of their lives.
The couple is eternal from this moment on. There may be conflicts in life, and sometimes people may seem to hate each other. However, we have promised our guests to do so here today. Eternity. Please remember and keep this moment in mind.
I hope that the bride and groom will be filial to their parents and other adults, and that they will be a beautiful couple in the eyes of their siblings, relatives, and everyone around them for the rest of their lives.
The bride and groom have already given each other enough advice when they visited to ask for the officiating, so I will not give a long speech today.
Instead, I ask for your help. I ask that you always pay attention to the two of them and guide them with warm advice and encouragement so that they can build a happy family. I sincerely congratulate the two of you on your marriage and will now deliver the wedding ceremony.
Thank you all.

 

 

Theme – A couple is a small but most ideal society

I think these two people will be able to become the people they are trying to become. Today, it is a truly beautiful wedding. How can the officiant not say a few words? I’ll say a few words.
I’d like to give these two couples, who will have nothing but happiness ahead of them, three pieces of advice.
I hope you will create one of the most beautiful families in the world.
A marriage is the smallest but the most ideal society.
Marriage is a sacred act of accepting someone else into my heart besides myself. We ask that you give your all to add one more of the most beautiful families in the world. Above all, please make it the most important thing.
Second, I ask that you spend at least one hour a day on yourself.
I hope that one hour a day will be a time for you to reflect on yourself and add to your learning. I think the first step to loving others is to improve yourself and become a beautiful person.
Don’t let any day go by without making an effort. Love the day. Try not to let a day go by without making an effort. Make sure to set aside at least one hour a day for yourself. Please make that time a time for self-training and self-reflection.
Finally, I hope that the two of you will be great sponsors for your partners.
I hope that husbands will recognize their wives’ special qualities and become their first supporters and sponsors who support them in doing what they want to do. Also, please help your wives become people who make the world, not people who just live in the world as it is.
I will take all of you here today as my witnesses, and I know that you will remember this day. Create one of the most beautiful families in the world.
Make sure to spend at least one hour a day on refining and training yourself. And we hope that we will be the most trusted and reliable supporters and sponsors for each other.
This concludes the simple remarks.
Thank you.

 

 

Theme – A couple who understand and care for each other

First of all, I would like to extend my warmest congratulations to the parents of the bride and groom on this joyous occasion. I would also like to thank the family and friends who have come despite their busy schedules, and all the guests on behalf of the bride and groom.
I would like to say a few words to wish the two of you a new beginning today and hope that you will always be in harmony and full of love, and also to contribute to your happy family.
First, I would like to say that you should recognize the virtues of being a husband and wife, respect each other, and live in harmony. The most basic thing to achieve a happy marriage is the harmony of the two of you. The bride and groom have grown up in different environments, but from now on, they must break away from that environment and create new value in a new environment.
People have different personalities and lifestyles because they have grown up in different environments. It is not easy for two people who have grown up in different environments to get married, start a family, and live together for the rest of their lives.
Therefore, in order to achieve harmony between the couple, they must have an understanding and a caring heart for each other. To do so, it is desirable for the groom to live with the feeling that he or she is always receiving help from the bride and for the bride to live with the feeling that she is always receiving help from the groom.
Just as fish gather in deep waters and birds flock to dense forests, there are always many good people around a person full of love. The same is true for a couple and a family.
Always think of others before yourself. And please do not forget the grace of your parents who gave birth to and raised you until you became who you are today, and always try to repay that grace. Also, please repay the grace of all the people around you who have helped you until today.
In particular, the way to repay your parents’ grace is to work together to create a healthy and happy family and to strengthen the bond between brothers and sisters. Of course, these are very common and ordinary words, but it is not easy to put them into practice. I hope that the two of you will always keep this in mind and build an exemplary family.
Finally, I would like to say a few words to the guests. You are all here today to celebrate the two of you. Don’t just watch the two of them start a new life today, but also keep an eye on them so that they can build a happy family together. Please give them your constant attention, warm advice, and encouragement.
Once again, I would like to extend my sincere congratulations to the two of you on your wedding and offer a brief speech on your behalf.
Thank you.

 

 

Theme – A couple should live by understanding and forgiving each other

The groom, ○○○, and the bride, ○○○, have become a complete couple by making their marriage vows and the officiant declaring them married, with the blessings of their parents and guests. I sincerely congratulate the two of you on your marriage. I would also like to congratulate the parents and guests of the two of you, who have lovingly raised and taught the two of you to this day.
In order for the two of you to build a new family and live happily, you must have true and unchanging love. For married couples, true and unchanging love is absolutely essential.
A couple must live by understanding and forgiving each other. No one is perfect. Every human being has shortcomings and sometimes makes mistakes. During our lifetime, we sometimes make mistakes or have flaws. In such cases, we need to put ourselves in others’ shoes. If you change your position and think from the other person’s perspective, you will be able to discard your prejudices and understand the other person.
Even if you pursue happiness for two people, you should not live a life that pursues happiness for only the two of you. We should be filial to our parents who have raised and taught us with great care until we have become who we are today.
We should not be just formal in our filial piety, but we should truly respect our parents from the bottom of our hearts and make them live comfortably and happily.
According to Mencius, filial piety consists of the filial piety of ‘yang gu-li’, which means providing material support for one’s parents, and the filial piety of ‘yang-zi’, which means providing care for one’s parents in accordance with their wishes. It is not the filial piety of “Yang Gu-rye” that is only offered with money and material things, but the filial piety of “Yang Ji” that is offered with a sincere heart and respect. As they live their lives while offering their parents such sincere care and receiving their parents’ warm love, I believe that their love will grow even stronger.
And if you treat your siblings and relatives with the same respect and care that you show to your parents, I think you will be able to get along well with your siblings and relatives, and even have a successful social life.
Now that the two of you are starting a new life together, I hope that you will be happy and build a model family while keeping these points in mind.
Thank you.

 

 

Theme – A marriage is an equal relationship

On this beautiful day, in this wonderful place, with the blessings of so many precious guests, I sincerely congratulate the groom ○○○-kun and the bride ○○○-san on their marriage. Since the two of you got married relatively late, I imagine that you must have driven your parents crazy with all the waiting. The wishes of the parents and relatives of the bride and groom for today must have been quite strong. The friendly urging of the friends who have joined us today must have been quite strong as well. So, the officiant suggests the following.
Dear guests! We would like to congratulate the two of you on your marriage, which has been a long time coming, and wish the newlyweds a long and happy future. Please give them a round of applause. Please. Now, whatever the final decision is, the final right to decide the matter rests solely with the two of you. Its success or failure is your own unique authority and responsibility that cannot be passed on to anyone else.
We are equal individuals, regardless of who our counterparts are. There are no exceptions, whether it be between parents and children, husband and wife, or boss and subordinate. We often see unfortunate cases of family members failing to understand the relationships between family members that need to be newly established, which leads to family breakdown.
Marital relationships are no longer a matter of the husband being superior to the wife, nor is it a matter of the wife being superior to the husband. They are equal relationships. You two should have a lot of conversations from now on. Now that the world is so diverse and fast-paced, we cannot expect communication without dialogue.
So, agree. Please understand. Make a compromise. Never give up halfway. Only then can you create and maintain a love that will never fade. Unchanging true love between a married couple is never a blessing that comes to you without any effort. Today is a very important day for the bride and groom that will never come again in their lifetime. Today is the first day of the wedding anniversary that will be celebrated every year in the future.
You two! Don’t just let tonight pass you by. Even if it is a little late, when you have some time alone, sit down together and reaffirm your plans for the future that you have promised each other from the day you first met until today. And hold hands and swear once again. Please make a firm decision. “Let’s be a couple who loves each other forever and ever.” That way, when you are living in the future and are in pain or difficulty, remember the promise you made tonight.
When the love of the two is shaken, this microcosm collapses and shatters without a doubt. The damage is felt by many. A tower built with great effort collapses. Your marriage must be successful, whether for yourselves, your parents and siblings, or your neighbors. There is no time to go the wrong way. The officiant concludes the ceremony by pledging to ensure the success of the marriage of such two people. Thank you.

 

 

Theme – A small bowl containing a jewel

Congratulations on the marriage of the groom ○○○ and the bride ○○○.
As someone who has been watching the two of you for a long time, I am very happy to be able to celebrate this happy day with you, your parents, and all the guests.
I am also very happy to be able to celebrate this happy day with you, your parents, and all the guests.
Congratulations once again to the couple who have now become husband and wife.
People often dream of waiting patiently.
I know that the bride and groom are also people who always strive to become bigger people, dreaming of waiting for the right time.
But what I want to say to the bride and groom today is that
the bride and groom should become each other’s ‘small bowls’ .
Starting today, the two of you
have each other’s ‘jewels’ – the bride and the groom.
Now that they are mine,
it’s easy to think that they will be happy just by being left alone somewhere in my bowl,
looking only at me.
But if you leave that jewel
to roll around in a big bowl, it will be scratched here and there,
and it may lose its beautiful ‘light’ as it is.
So the bride and groom should become the perfect little bowls for each other
and embrace each other.
Don’t believe that each other will understand everything.
Constantly love, cherish, and watch over your jewelry so that it will not be hurt.
If you do so, your small vessels will naturally come together to become a very large vessel called a ‘happy family’.
How to grow your vessel
Always think about how to make the jewelry in it happy.
Only when a happy family is established will success in society follow.
I hope the two of you will build a happier family than anyone else, and I will conclude my speech with this. Thank you very much.

 

 

Topic – To achieve harmony between husband and wife, there must be an understanding and a caring heart for each other

First of all, I would like to extend my warmest congratulations to the parents of both families who have reached this auspicious day, and I would also like to thank the relatives and friends who have come despite their busy schedules, and all the guests on behalf of the bride and groom.
I would like to say a few words to wish the two of you a new beginning today and hope that you will always be in harmony and full of love, and also to contribute to your happy family.
First, I would like to say that you should recognize the virtues of being a husband and wife, respect each other, and live in harmony. The most basic thing to achieve a happy marriage is the harmony of the two of you. The bride and groom have grown up in different environments, but from now on, they must break away from that environment and create new values in a new environment.
Since people have grown up in different environments, their personalities and lifestyles are bound to be different. It is no easy task for two people who have grown up in different environments to get married, start a family, and live together for the rest of their lives.
Therefore, in order to achieve harmony between the couple, they must have an understanding and a caring heart for each other. To do so, it is desirable for the groom to always feel like he or she is receiving help from the bride and for the bride to always feel like she is receiving help from the groom.
Just as fish gather in deep waters and birds flock to dense forests, there are always many good people around a person full of love. The same is true for a couple and a family.
Always think of others before yourself. And I hope you will always remember the grace of your parents and repay them for their kindness. I also hope you will repay the grace of all the people around you who have helped you to get to where you are today.
In particular, the way to repay your parents’ grace is to work together to create a healthy and happy family and to strengthen the bond between brothers and sisters. Of course, this is a very common and ordinary saying, but it is not easy to put it into practice. I hope that the two of you will always keep this in mind and build an exemplary family.
Finally, I would like to say a few words to the guests. You are all here today to celebrate the two of you. Please don’t just watch the two of them start a new life today, but also keep an eye on them so that they can build a happy family together. Please always be there for them with your interest, warm advice, and encouragement.
Once again, I would like to extend my sincere congratulations to the two of you on your wedding and I will give a brief speech on your behalf.
Thank you.

 

 

Topic – Please keep in mind the trust, love, and respect between husband and wife

Today is the most auspicious day for the bride and groom to light the wedding torch in the presence of their parents, brothers, sisters, and relatives. As the officiant, I would like to make a few requests on this sacred day of human relations.
Now, you must build a loving home for your newlywed family. Marital love is unconditional love. Love should be given generously, not just sought. You must know that unconditional love is love that is given without any expectation of return, and that love between a married couple is accompanied by sacrifice. A couple should never forget that they are a community destined to sail far away together. We must share our joys and sorrows, rely on each other, and comfort each other. I believe that if two people work together, they can overcome any difficult obstacle.
In the future, the two of you must build a happy family. Happiness does not fall from the sky or come from someone else. It depends on how hard you work to cultivate and refine it. When asked, “Are you happy in your marriage?” I hope that the two of you will work hard to maintain and improve your marriage so that you can confidently answer this question.
In addition, trust is important between couples. Trust between a married couple is very important, and acts that betray that trust are absolutely unacceptable. As a husband and wife, you must not deviate from the duties that you are supposed to uphold. The cracks in family peace begin to appear because of distrust, which in turn breeds hatred and hatred leads to family breakdown. Therefore, you must never act in a suspicious manner and remember that faith is the cornerstone of family security.
Finally, couples should respect each other’s opinions. They should refrain from words that hurt each other’s pride, words that ignore or belittle each other, and picking quarrels or getting angry unnecessarily. It is very important to value the other person in your heart. Among the words of Seonghyun, there is one that says that couples should treat each other like guests in their lives. If you live with the mindset of welcoming a precious guest with joy, treating them with care and politeness, and welcoming them with sincerity, you can bring harmony to your family. When we are in conflict with each other, we can achieve harmony and unity in the family when we are a little patient and exercise wisdom by taking a step back and giving in.
Please do not forget that the husband can only give his best to his work outside if the couple is harmonious and the family is healthy. I would like to wish the newlyweds, who are starting their lives today, the grace of heaven and measure myself as a wedding officiant. Thank you.

 

 

Topic – Please don’t change and understand each other as you do now

I am very sorry to be asked to give a speech for the bride and groom, as I lack the experience and virtue to do so. I thought about why the bride and groom asked me to give the speech, as I am ordinary, lacking in experience and virtue, and have no special status. I think the life orientation of the bride and groom, who seem to be as affectionate as siblings, is not to pursue a life of eating well and being successful, but to live together with ordinary neighbors, with an emphasis on the value of living together.
I have been watching these two for a long time. A married couple is not one mind and one body, but two minds and two bodies, so it is natural for them to fight, but I was worried that they might not fight at all. They were always so affectionate. As they are different independent individuals, they may have different thoughts and positions, which may cause conflict, but when they acknowledge and respect their differences after a fight, the fight will become a source of even more passion. Perhaps the bride and groom knew this truth even before they got married.
There may be minor quarrels such as differences in food culture in everyday life, differences in TV program preferences, or struggles for leadership in the family, but in major conflicts, I hope that your hearts will be as wide as the sky and the sea. Sometimes, the perspective on an event and the attitude toward it are more important than the event itself. Loving while insisting on one’s own will is ultimately nothing more than an extension of one’s ego. A typical example of egocentric love is the thought, “How could you do that when I love you so much?”
We can only begin to experience mature love when we accept the ontological fate of never becoming one, no matter how much we love. There is a Chinese idiom that says “One cannot be both right and wrong.” It means that they are harmoniously blended but not the same. It can be said that the meaning of marriage is to create a beautiful harmony of love while accepting differences, which is what completes love.
Once again, I would like to say that instead of expecting the energy of love to be directed towards me, I hope that the energy of love will be directed from me to him and that the love will be spread to the neighbors around us. It will not be a one-point project, but a lifelong project that you will have to accomplish. Please keep this in mind and make sure to practice it as you did at the beginning.